Hard Lessons
"Being led on by a boss and making the best of it."
This is super hard!
We want the opportunity being offered, we want to trust the person making the offer. Unfortunately, we never really know when to stop chasing the carrot even while our trust slowly erodes.
I love this Hard lesson because even in the face of potential disappointment Yelle Belle, Co-founder of In Creative Company, took the opportunity to work hard, stay focused and grow professionally even while she was beginning to doubt the intentions of leadership. She did not get the result she was hoping for, but she did grow professionally and learn a valuable hard lesson.
The Hard Lessons series is created and hosted by Michael "The Bookkeeper" Oberther. Michael loves what he does! From the moment that he meets someone through networking, he gets the privilege to learn about them, their lives, and their businesses. He then gets to address how he can best assist them. Whether it’s connecting them with someone in his extensive network that can help them achieve their business goals or sending them to his company, Supporting Strategies, he can then take care of their bookkeeping needs. He is rewarded by knowing he is a part of their process and success!
Video Transcript
Michael Oberther: Yelle, what is the hardest lesson you've learned in business?
Yelle Belle: The hardest lesson that I learned is letting it go. And I'll tell you a story about how I learned this. So from day one, it was promised equity in a company and a product. And I stuck with them for two and a half years. And I just kept telling myself, you're learning one thing, you're learning that now that another thing, you're setting milestones for yourself, you are learning, I had 12 equity conversations with the founder, and it never came through. So after two and a half years, I said, That's it. I've learned everything. Now I need to learn my lesson. I'm done. And it opened me up to being able to start my own business based on how to run a company and how not to run a company.
Michael Oberther: Yo, there's an awesome hard lesson. Thank you for sharing. If you have a hard lesson shared in the comments below. Maybe you can be our next guest.
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